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Book review: Olly & Lilly

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I love discovering new books, particularly when they’re about adoption. I came across this month’s book as a result of being on the author’s mailing list for his blog. The book is “Olly & Lilly. The Search for a New Race Team.” It’s written by Matt Flukes and beautifully illustrated by Lucie Cooke.

Matt is dad to two adopted sons who came home forever in early 2017. During his adoption leave, he was diagnosed with incurable Myeloma Cancer. He’s having ongoing treatment which has included a stem cell transplant.

He drafted the first version of this book back in 2017 as both a legacy for his sons, but also to help all families going through change. He’s hoping to create a series of books exploring different issues with Olly & Lilly.

Olly and Lilly. The Search for a New Race Team

Matt explains his motivation for writing the book :

“Whilst preparing to adopt, my husband and I read many books to help inform and educate us on the challenges ahead, both emotional and practical. The subject of adoption lacked books and stories that resonated with our sons. Most were pitched at too young an age and over-simplified.

“I wanted to encapsulate the fear, loss and concerns that adopted children face but also harness their sheer positivity and hope for the future for all children. The book is aimed at children aged 4-7, to help them understand their situation.

“It is valid for all children not just adopted children, as it discusses families, love, goals, challenges, hopes and wishes that all children have, whilst also acting as a key PHSE resource for schools. The parent bikes are non-gender specific, making the story applicable to all types of families.”

Matt blogs about their journey “From Software to Softplay” and you can follow him on Instagram. If you’d like to find out about donating stem cells to help people like Matt, visit the Myeloma website. We were kindly gifted a copy of the book so that we could do the review.

 

Olly & Lilly
We Made a Wish

Olly and Lilly: Our review

Our eldest daughter was six when we reviewed the book and was really excited when we opened the parcel. She loved the front cover straight away. She asked what the book was about so I said it was a book about what happens if parents aren’t able to look after their children. That then started a conversation about her tummy mummy and why she came to live with us.

Olly & Lilly is a beautiful picture storybook. It follows the journey two young bikes take to find a new forever race team when their mummy stops working properly and can’t look after them.

The story looks at some big issues such as neglect, in a gentle, sensitive way. When we got to that part of the book, our eldest asked quite a few questions about why parents sometimes can’t look after their children.

Olly & Lilly
We Made a Wish

Finding a new family

The book explores why it isn’t always the case that the first new race team will be the right one. Olly & Lilly didn’t feel that they fitted into the first garage they were moved to. Everyone was lovely, but it didn’t feel quite right. I think this is a brilliant way of explaining why sometimes children have to move to different placements until they find the right care to suit their needs.

The story then explores how two grown-up bikes wanted to create their own race-team family. The yellow helper bike checks out where they live and what they’re like, to make sure they’re the perfect fit for Olly & Lilly.

We really enjoyed reading the book. It’s engaging and fun but deals with big issues sensitively to gently explain why sometimes parents can’t look after their children. It deals with some of the emotions children experience when they’re moved into foster care and then adopted such as separation and loss. Children love bikes so using them as the characters is a great way of engaging them. The illustrations are beautiful.

If you’re looking for a book to explain the issues around adoption to young children, we would definitely recommend it. It captured our eldest’s attention straight away and she said to tell everyone that she loved it!

“Olly & Lilly. The search for a new race team” is available to buy from Amazon or directly from the author. Please note that the link to Amazon is affiliated which means if you click on it and buy the book, I get paid a fee.

 

Olly & Lilly

If you’d like to find out about more children’s books that deal with adoption, have a look at my roundup of some of the best ones.

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